Bappa Moraya

Ganesh Idol - 2017

Its that time of the year again! Whatever the circumstances, I cannot stop but feel the excitement about it. I agree things are going to be a bit different this year, but that is no reason to dampen our spirits and vigor. Each year we plead for Him to return again quickly and each year we set about doing the preparations for His welcome with equal gusto.

There are a lot of memories connected to these 11 days. Be it visiting our neighbors for the nightly aartis as part of the melee of kids excited about what will the prasad be on offer in each house or going around town watching in awe the huge idols and scenes erected by the Ganesh mandals. There were so many emotions invested, that on the 11th day when the idol was immersed we felt that somebody from the family was leaving us. The absence of the aarti and prasad on the next day left an inexplicable void for a few days.

This year there have been restrictions on community celebrations and rightly so. I do feel disappointed about it but it is what it is. I think we should take this time to pause and look within and realign ourselves to what these 11 days really signify. When Tilak started the practice of community celebrations of this festival it was with the intention of unifying us, to find common cause. Over the years we somehow deviated from that. Commercialism became rampant and somewhere the true essence of these celebrations was lost. Maybe this year affords us time to rethink and reapply ourselves to the ideal of community and togetherness if not physically then in our thoughts and actions.

My only wish is that this year on the 11th day as we immerse Him with our pleadings ,inviting him again next year, that He alleviates everything that ails us, makes us whole again and most importantly makes us realize that what humanity faces today and forces us to distance from each other is actually something which is bringing us together in more way than one.

                                                             Bappa Moraya!!!

Aatmay's 1st

This post took me the better part of 2 weeks to come with.

Its common knowledge amongst the folks who are in touch with us and who invariably end up liking my activity on ‘social media’ that Aatmay celebrated his 1st birthday on the 21st July.  However here I attempt to pen down what went into making the day memorable for us. I do say ‘us'. The first birthdays are more a celebration of the first year of parenthood than anything else. Heck, the kid wouldn’t even remember what his first few birthdays were like. So in effect the first birthday to put it bluntly was more like making sure that we as parents did everything to ‘pat’ ourselves on the back. Ohh, and I think we sure did a good job.

The monthly birthdays are an integral part of the first year birthday celebrations. A picture is captured on the day of the month the baby is born each month of the first year. The Mrs, month in and month out meticulously planned for this picture, adhering to a theme each month. A few examples below:

3rd month : October – the picture had a reference to pumpkins

4th month : November – the picture had a reference to turkey

5th month : December – any guesses? Christmas, Santa, gifts

6th month : January – Kites. Sankranti

7th month : February – Valentine’s day

8th month : March – Gudi Padwa

9th month : April – ‘Stay at home’ – no points for guessing

11th month : June – International Yoga day

More efforts were needed to pull off the poses appropriate for the themes. In my opinion the pose for the 11th month (International Yoga day) was the most challenging to capture.

Much closer to the big day, the prep started in right earnest. The theme for the birthday celebration was to be 'Nautical'. A sailor's dress was shortlisted and ordered from Amazon along with some accompanying decoration inline with the theme. The Mrs took it onto herself to bake the birthday cake trying her hand for the first time with fondant and what not. Before you say I seem to have done nothing, let me clarify that I did take 2 days off work to be of use.

As a curtain raiser of sorts, we had a cake-smash. A small cake with lots of cream was made and placed in front of Aatmay who was dressed in his diapers only. The idea was to record Aatmay simply attack the cake and make a mess. He relished the cake and enjoyed it to the fullest.

On the day of the birthday, a couple of Zoom calls were lined up for folks back in India to wish Aatmay and also become a part of the celebrations. The Zoom calls made us realize that going virtual actually enabled more people to share in our joy. The evening was spent with a few friends who attended in person and was capped off with the Hara Bhara kabab and Pav Bhaji which the Mrs whipped up.

In summary, I would say that the day itself was exhausting but it was totally worth it. Another blog is needed to talk about my personal experiences of parenthood/fatherhood in this past year. I leave you with some glimpses of the birthday. Hope you like them.

A short compilation video of the monthly pics. We played this at the start of the Zoom calls to set the mood.

Aatmay's cake smash!

The Happy Birthday song!

The birthday cake!

The Zoom call birthday cake (this was cut in the morning)

The monthly bday pics were put up in a map documenting his journey to 1

Aai Baba and Aatmay!

Party People!